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The American Psychiatric Association, along with other mental health organizations, has asked the White House to overturn its policy of not sending condolence letters to the families of service members who commit suicide.
According to the APA, soldiers who commit suicide still receive full military honors. But the families of soldiers who take their own lives won't receive a condolence letter from the president, unlike those of colleagues killed in the line of duty.